Time and time again I have seen and experienced how our fear and unwillingness to 'confront' an issue cripple relationships, hinder growth and distrort truth.
and when I finally decide to talk to the people concerned to clear things up, suddenly, the truth will just emerge and we realise how silly we have been. As a result, working relations restored, friendships strengthened, trust built and the schemes of the devil exposed! Those were the times, when the issues we felt were real, weren't even real.
There are, of course, those times when the issues are real. it is in those times, that the parties come to God for cleansing and restoration. Forgiveness is extended and again.... working relations restored, friendships strengthened, trust built and again the schemes of the devil exposed!
How I wish we could just talk whenever we face issues with others. but how the devil hates us for doing so. He would in all his ability stop us by crippling us with fear, whispering all kinds of lies in our ears about how the 'confrontation' can cause dire outcomes. and when we decide to talk, the devil would try to make us talk in hatred, anger and bitterness.
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11It was he who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some to be evangelists, and some to be pastors and teachers, 12to prepare God's people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up 13until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.
14Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of men in their deceitful scheming. 15Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.
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So let's talk people, talk...in love
but beware....Truth spoken in love is liberating but Truth spoken without love is brutal.

